5 Secrets You Must Know Before Planning a Destination Beach Wedding


A destination beach wedding is a truly memorable event for both the couple and their guests. You’re given an intimate ceremony, a breathtaking backdrop for pictures, and can even combine your wedding and honeymoon!

Pulling off a flawless event at the shore comes with a unique set of considerations to recognize before sending out your save-the-dates. Here are the top 5 secrets to help as you start planning your destination beach wedding with ease!

1. Settle on a realistic budget

Before you jet off to a foreign land to marry your partner, it’s important to set a realistic budget for both the wedding and for your guests.

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Depending on when and where you’re looking to elope, prices can often fluctuate based on seasonality and high tourism dates. The average wedding in Canada is $30,000. The average destination wedding is only $7,000, but the actual cost will be determined by your wish list and your must haves.

As Sharon Wilson, Business Development Manager from Palace Resorts says, “Don’t mistake a bit lower price for better value. The resort experience itself will also be a lasting memory for your guests.” 

You can blow your budget immediately by not determining the number of guests attending  before selecting your wedding package. 

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Consider this: when you choose your wedding package, a set number of guests is included, but you pay an extra per person rate if you go over.

A bride and groom last year came to me with a budget of $5,000 for the wedding. They planned  to have 100 people attend. 

With the resort and wedding package they chose, it was not possible to stay within budget because the wedding package only included 30 people.   With a per person rate over the package base of $65 per person, that  left only  $450 for the  other elements of  the wedding!

To stay on track with wedding-related and travel expenses, here are a few things to mix into your budget scope:

Destination costs 

The further you fly the more expensive it tends to be.  Time of year can also play a big factor in your guest budget as well.


Ceremony and reception venue, décor, and offsite or onsite location

When envisioning your perfect day, deciding on a private event where you have the exclusive use of the property will require a higher budget. 

Other additional fees for premium locations at a resort such as a rooftop terrace or private beach can be required, so make sure you ask in advance. Basic décor set up is usually included in your quote, but if you want any extras be sure to include them in your budget.

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Guest list and number of guests invited

This can increase your budget as a wedding package usually only includes a limited number of people.  If you’re planning on more guests, you’ll  need to increase your budget, your wedding package or both.

Hotel accommodations: all inclusive hotel vs European plan

If you choose an all inclusive resort, you know what is included, but choosing European plan, where your meals and drinks are not included, will be something to consider for both you and your guests.

Wedding dress, hair, makeup, etc.

These are items you’ll certainly want to add to your budget. Hair and  makeup can usually be provided by the resort but be sure to ask about costs. 

A special note: when traveling with your wedding dress, do not check it.  Here are our 5 tips on how to travel with a wedding dress

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Photographer and videographer

These costs are extra and they should be, since choosing a photographer is like selecting art ; everyone has different taste.  Be sure to research the resort photographer as well as any others you’re considering on your own.  If you choose to bring your own, be sure to ask the resort if they charge vendor fees for outside vendors.

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Cost of shipping favors and other small items to your destination

You are welcome to ship some items for the wedding in advance, but be sure to ask whether there is a fee to store them until your arrival.  Also, compare the cost of shipping with taking another checked bag. 

We caution any bride and groom when shipping items in advance because there is always a possibility that your items won’t clear customs or get to the destination in time.  You have to be aware of this.

In addition to listing everything that goes into creating your budget, another important step is to hire a certified destination wedding planner to assist you when officially booking your event. A destination wedding planner can help you budget yourself before the planning even begins!

Feeling overwhelmed? A checklist might be a big help, download our Ultimate Destination Wedding Checklist Here:

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2. Not all beaches are created equal

The ocean presents one of the most beautiful ceremony and reception settings, but you must understand what each destination’s beach has to offer in order to  guarantee the wedding of your dreams.

Los Cabos is known for its beautiful walking beaches which host some of the most amazing weddings, but you can’t swim in the ocean in front of most resorts due to the undertow.  Paradisus Los Cabos is one of the only swimmable beach resorts in Los Cabos.

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Depending on where you’re looking to travel, beach seasons vary by geography. Here are a few things to consider when choosing a beach for your event.

White or Brown Sand Beach

If we know not all beaches are created equal, how do you understand the difference between a white sand beach and a brown sand beach?

On the Caribbean side you have white sand beaches with the turquoise waters, but  they can come with unstable weather and wind.

On the Pacific side, you have brown sand beaches with darker blue water, but you get more stable weather and very little wind.

Not only is the color of the sand important, so is knowing if the beach is rocky, family friendly, whether the resort has sand breaks or even seaweed. All of these factors change things dramatically for both the bride and groom and  guests as well. Consider which elements are necessary for your wedding photos, desired color scheme, the weather and if shoes will be optional!

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Sunrise and Sunset

What makes destination beach weddings stand out from any other type of nuptial location?

The pictures! The amount of daylight, what time of day, and your desired look can all be affected by your destination.


Often when we ask our brides and grooms to describe the perfect day, they will start with the beach and the weather.  If you’re set on a sunset wedding, whether or not the resort faces the right direction is critical. A sunset wedding may be impossible. Remember to choose your resort because it fits your vision; looking pretty comes after.

Last year one of my wedding couples wanted to get married in Puerto Vallarta They dreamed of a sunset ceremony in December.

The problem was that the location and time they had chosen would not give them what they were looking for.  The resort they had chosen prior to meeting  with us was on the wrong side of the cove, so they wouldn’t get that dream sunset ceremony.

Peak and Off-Peak 

There’s a chance that the best beach wedding weather may take place during high tourist seasons. Unless you have a non-negotiable date for your wedding, research the peak and off-peak seasons of the beaches you have your eye on. 

Be sure to review your budget for the perfect time to travel and know that during Christmas or Spring Break it will be busy. 

A checklist might be a big help, download our Ultimate Destination Wedding Checklist Here:

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 3. The month of the year does matter

Taking the time to research yearly weather patterns of your top destinations will help you decide the best time of the year to get married. As much as you may believe the rain is your #1 enemy at a beach wedding, wind and heat can be just as worrisome!

After 8 years of planning beach destination weddings, we’ve compiled our favorite and most recommended wedding-friendly months for each location, and the destinations to say “I do” to throughout the year based on temperature, humidity, hurricane season, and rain forecast:

January - March: The Caribbean, Mexico, and Costa Rica

April - May: Jamaica, Mexico, and the Dominican Republic

June - October: Hawaii, Los Cabos, and Puerto Vallarta

November - December: The Dominican Republic and Mexico

When you think of your destination wedding, few couples envision rain or wind or even a storm, but in a destination where weather is a major factor it is important to consider a backup plan 

All outdoor elements of the wedding should have an acceptable plan B identified before securing your resort.  Make sure this works for your vision because it will change the look of your perfect day.

 A Helpful Tip: Don’t forget your flowers!

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Not all types of flowers are big fans of the hot sun, and they can be tricky to work with. Choose flowers that not only compliment your wedding design but can also hold up in the heat.

Options we love for beachfront events include freesias, calla lilies, orchids, and pastel colored succulents. Also keep in mind that not all flowers are easily accessible around the world.  It is recommended to choose colors more than flower type.

4.  Not all resorts specialize in weddings, and there is a difference

There is a big difference between a resort that does weddings and a wedding resort.  Just because a resort says they can do weddings, doesn’t mean they are good at what they do.  

Having a resort that can offer you a wedding package that allows for customizations and changes if it doesn’t fit your design is critical in making sure your day turns out the way you want it to. 

Claribel Santos, Romance Manager at Paradisus Punta Cana, says, “It is important to ask what the inclusions are, including food and beverage, decor and colors they offer, how many guests are included and what the per person rate is if you go over.” 

Don’t just look at the wedding package and think “that will work” because more often than not, it doesn’t, and you will incur additional costs to create what you have dreamed about. 

If a private reception or dinner is important, make sure you understand exactly what’s included when looking at wedding packages.  Not all wedding packages include a private reception.

This can become very costly when you include location, setup and clean up fees as well as a per person rate.  If this is a top priority for you, ask all of the details for a private reception ahead of time so there are no surprises.

Carlo Trinidad, Business Development Manager with AMResorts suggests, “Don’t commit to a certain theme or color as trends often change. Decide on these closer to your wedding (about 4 months out) so that you can see what can be offered to you by the resort.”

5. Travel Agent  or Wedding Planner?

Planning a destination beach wedding from thousands of miles away takes a lot of organization, clear communication with vendors, time management, and many deep breaths. You can spend hours working with vendors and wedding coordinators when planning a destination wedding, or you can ask for help.

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Enjoy the planning process more with the help of a professional.  When looking at which professional makes the most sense to help you plan your perfect beach wedding you will need to determine whether to use a Travel Consultant, a Wedding Planner, or both.

A certified travel consultant’s role is to provide you and your guests travel support to ensure everyone gets to the wedding safely.  They will be able to give you sound advise on the travel components and some may be able to offer resort advice.  Most will set up the wedding date and time at the resort you chose and then introduce you to the wedding coordinator at the resort to work out the details of planning your wedding. 

Travel consultants may not have a strong understanding of wedding packages, ceremony and reception locations and areas where you can save you money on your big day, so inquire about these important elements before deciding on who to work with.  Most work only with the travel component in mind, so be sure you’re prepared to take on all the planning yourself.

A certified destination wedding planner will guide you to the perfect look and design of your wedding.  They will give you planning advice and recommendations on how to save money, etiquette on traditions and they can ensure that the location you picked has all the perfect elements. 

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They also work directly for you, so your interests are the top priority.  Their focus will be 100% on the wedding. 

Destination wedding planners  understand the resorts very well, will have visited most of them and know what can be negotiated and what things a resort is firm on.  They will have vendor lists to assist when you need something specific or costs are too high at the resort. 

You should also hire a wedding planner for off site locations to ensure timelines are laid out correctly and you aren’t missing any pieces that can ruin your special day. A planner will have local vendor contacts that will be a lifesaver when planning from a remote location.

The benefits of using both:

A certified destination wedding planner and travel consultant is the ultimate find.  They can offer the best of both worlds. 

They will offer sound advice on the resorts to choose from and understand the destination weather patterns and sunsets.  They will also consider your budget in its entirely when guiding you in decisions for the wedding. 

They will consider all elements, not just the trip or the wedding. They can work with you to choose the right location based on your wish list and want list for that special day, and offer great advice on the wedding packages at the hotels, without sacrificing the travel needs of your guests.

A certified destination planner and travel specialist will understand the needs of your guests travel and consider other options if something doesn’t work.  They will have a vendor list in destinations and many contacts that can help if you need something special.

As Gina Johnson, Wedding and Romance Sales Manager for Playa Resorts says, “The MOST important mistake to avoid….don’t go it alone. Don’t try to handle the wedding and travel planning yourself. Use a professional Travel Consultant/Wedding Planner to manage your group;,they are your biggest help and advocate. You’ll be glad you did.”

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Destination weddings are stress-free and less expensive than a traditional wedding as long as you know what to look for.  It is important to consider all of these steps before securing your destination, resort or venue to ensure the vision of your special day is everything you ever dreamed of. 

A bride once asked me, “Am I supposed to be doing something for the wedding?  Planning with you seems way too easy.” 

It can be when you have the right professional in your corner.

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For more assistance you can download our Ultimate Destination Wedding Checklist Here

or you can book a free consultation here

4 Most Popular Spots for Your Destination Wedding

Although there are many different spots to get married when traveling abroad there are some very popular spots that brides & grooms tend to choose. 


 Some of them are traditional and some of them not so much.  Here are 4 spots that are very popular:

1.    THE BEACH – most destination weddings are where couples want to get married on the beach in front of the water.

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Some want a sunset wedding but most don’t care, most just want the beach.   They mainly choose the Caribbean side for the turquoise water and white sand


 HOWEVER, I enjoy the pacific side as well as the water is darker blue, brown sugar sand, but they have sunsets like you can’t even imagine. 

The other bonus is the weather is more consistent and not as much wind.

2.      The ROOF TOP TERRACE -  most couples choose this location so that they can still have the beautiful water background, but they don’t have to deal with all the onlookers and photo bombs that people tend to do in a wedding. 

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 There is more privacy and intimacy in this type of location. 

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 Another bonus to this type of location is that you can also have your reception in the same place, so no need to change venues.

A SECLUDED GARDEN or BEACH – amazingly beautiful and private, more and more couples are wanting to hide away and get married where only their close friends and family are around.

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The beautiful part of a secluded beach or garden is the area is usually untouched and has the most amazing scenery. 

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 They can sometimes be right on property depending on the resort.  Couples love the isolation and intimacy that the gardens/beach will give them with no onlookers.

And finally

4.   The Hidden Gems – couples are now interested is areas that are harder to get to. 

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Some resorts have special spots right onsite and they are secluded beach areas, cenotes and caves and even chapels over the water.

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 It is all about the view, and how hard it is to get there. 

These places are not for the budget conscious couples as there is usually an expense involved.  They are amazing and allow couples to have a unique look for their wedding. 

 Not like everyone else.

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If you would like to know more about how to find these popular wedding spots,

Contact us today for your free consulation

5 Mistakes to Avoid When Selecting Your Wedding Package

Now you have chosen that perfect resort

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 It is time to look into the wedding packages at the resort of your choice to make sure they offer what you want. 

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 Most resorts are pretty flexible and if your willing to pay for it, you can make just about anything happen. 

You need to ask questions, never assume you can do something.  For example, if you want wish lanterns to release in the night, make sure you ask if they are permitted, some destinations won’t allow them.

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 When your looking at wedding packages you want to make the best decision for your wedding, however it is important to make sure you are getting value in the package you are choosing. 

Not all wedding packages give you value for your dollars.  When you look at what is included, make sure you have your “wish” list handy. 

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 Things that are already included are great, but it’s the extras that can add up so be sure that you request that information when requesting package details. 

 Look for things like:

  •  how long is the DJ & bar service?
  • private reception vs semi private

  • cost per person for extending hours

  • if it is an outdoor reception what time do you have to close

  • what’s included for the wedding party?

  • And last but never least see what is included for your honeymoon the next day

Be sure to ask them if there are any additional extras added if you have a certain number of guests attending. 

There are some resorts that offer additional discounts as well as events based on your guest list count.

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Finally, ask a professional wedding planner to review it with you, they will see all the items that you maybe be missing and need to consider. 

If you would like some assistance

Contact me for your free Rock-It Destination Wedding consultation.